Time to reflect
Monday, March 17, 2008 3:32 pm by Amy Bachman
Finally home after the long 14 hour drive yesterday I have found time to reflect on my experience in New Orleans this past week. Last night as I sat around with my friends I attempted to explain all that I saw and did this past week, to say the least I don’t think I did it justice. Going on two hours of sleep and lots of coffee I jumped from story to story. As other students have said this past week does seem like a blur, the days seem to run together and trying to explain everything that we did seems daunting.
What I want to do is to begin to explain the stories of last week that are not as exciting or funny, not the stories that I rattled off to my friends but the stories of the people that I met that deserve serious reflection. As many students have said, New Orleans is still hurting; nearly 3 years after the disaster people are still not yet home. The love that the people of New Orleans have for their city and culture is unlike anything I’ve experienced in any other city. The pride they have for their culture is inspiring and experiencing the city first hand I felt my self swept up in it as well. The city motto of “la joie de vivre” ( joy of living) is truly unique to New Orleans, the people there really enjoy life and I am not just talking about Mardi Gras and Bourbon St, they embrace life each day in all the neighborhoods.
This being said, to have this city and culture that they love so much, destroyed by the hurricane is a devastation greater than I feel I can comprehend. It was reiterated by countless people that I met that people do not leave New Orleans or move away, families stay for generations because its more than home it’s a way of life. My heart goes out to those who had to leave during the storm or move away and have yet to move back to their great city. I met many people who are still living in FEMA trailers waiting for their houses to be rebuilt. And this rebuilding, by the way, is not being done by the government its being done by volunteers. Yet as others have said the amount of help untrained volunteers like us can be is minimal because most houses have moved passed the gutting phase and need trained professionals to reconstruct their homes.
I think some of the saddest stories of the storm are those people who are still struggling to come home. One specific story that stands out in my mind was at the St. Bernard Community Center I met a woman as she was coming in to get information about housing. We started talking and I asked her about where she was living and she told me that before the storm she lived in an apartment in the area but had to move to Alabama in the aftermath. She is still living in Alabama. Her apartment, she told me, was one of the first things to be rebuilt in her area but the rent of her apartment literally doubled, making it so she could not afford to move back. For two and half years she has been trying to come back to New Orleans, to her home but she can’t and has received no help in this. Her story is the story of thousands of people who just do not know how to get back to their lives before the storm. The thing that touched me most about talking with her was that I think I may have been the first times in awhile at least that she had even had anyone to talk to about her story. She had a 13 year old son with her, who was extremely uninterested in any of her problems and obviously did not understand even his own situation. The children affected by the storm are another issue that will be present for years down the road because the psychological damage they have experienced is immense.
I could go on and on about different encounters with people I has last week but to conclude I will attempt to point out the hope in the area. New Orleans is on its way to being rebuilt. The French quarter almost seems as if nothing ever happened, it is as vibrant and fun as am sure it always was. The city is healing and as much as it needs volunteers to come help it rebuild, it needs tourists to come and enjoy the city. So go to New Orleans and see what is there, I promise you will not regret it.
And lastly I want to thank the trip leaders, Devin and Kapy and our amazing advisor Jen for giving us all the opportunity to see New Orleans and for working so hard through so many setbacks to make the trip an amazing experience for us all. Also a huge thanks to all the Wake Alumni and Wake families that took us in and truly made us feel welcome in their great city, thank you for your hospitality! And finally a big thanks to the organizers of this blog, Kim McGrath for creating this page for us to share about our trip, without it so many opportunities and reflection would not have been possible. And thanks to everyone on the trip, I’m glad I had such good people to share such an amazing week with!